A few years ago my wife approached me regarding a 1/2 marathon race in which she was looking for support on her training. I could see in her face it was really getting the best of her. The race was along the shoreline of
The word decision is derived from German origin and literally means to cut off all else. As I reflect on this event I realized I was fully committed to the result and had made a rock solid decision. I began to ponder questions. Why is it that I struggle to be consistent with the gym and yet follow through with such determination on something I typically would not have any interest? How often do I struggle to make a rock solid decision & why? Why do I often fall short with decisions I make? The next epiphany came clear to me. The art of a strong decision requires clarity, leverage and commitment to the standard necessary to reach the result. I often help people feel the psychology of a decision through pain or pleasure leverages. Would you follow through with your goal if I was to give you a million dollars to achieve it? Would you achieve the goal if your left arm and right leg would be taken from you if you failed on your goal? Making strong decisions for many can be messy, frustrating and seemingly just out of reach. It requires cutting off all other limiting options to be successful. When was the last time you made a strong decision? Did you succeed? How did it make you feel?